In spite of every hurdle, hurt, abandonment, hard situation, lack of opportunity or being left out, there’s a king inside every man!
Every man has his God given mission to know who they are and what they should do before bringing in a lady into his nest.
Unfortunately there are those who have not discovered who they are and are so rigid to change they make me want to take paracetamols!
Those who have an innate need to suppress a woman to feel like a man!
Only a fool cannot change his/her mind!
Miss, it’s not in your purview to activate his mission! He needs to know it himself!
He needs to come to himself otherwise you will be busy trying to hold his hand as he charters the course of manhood and he will be there saying that you “mother ” him.
As much as God has given us special wisdom to walk by their side as they move from glory to glory, you cannot change him!
It’s a hard steel metal lesson to any lady who is getting married or married!
Whether he is a laid back man or simply a chatterbox, you cannot change him!
The thing is, you only need wisdom and understanding to love him everyday, more everyday, as he finds his right motion.
His path, his way, his vision, his mission, his purpose, not his friends!
Choose him everyday as he finds the king inside of him.
Appreciate him everyday as he de-clutters his heart off the “toys” he clung on.
Admire his strength and do not dismiss his non verbal gestures.
Cheer him on as he discovers who he is!
As long as he is changing and moving, keep clapping on.
His pace might not be as the drone, nor as a subaru, but as long as he showing improvement, as long as he is fluid, keep cheering him on.
As long as he is flux, his opportunity of greatness is around the corner! Don’t stiffle him!