Monday Tidbit: Arguments are just fine!
Posted on January 15, 2018 by Mary Munene
Now, if you are in courtship, do not be afraid to argue but argue constructively. I have come across couples who are afraid to argue.I have come across ladies who stoop to every whim the man pulls, because she’s afraid of loosing him
Don’t be afraid to argue or have fights. Don’t be afraid to disagree with each other. Disagreements are just fine.
Your relationship should give you a very open space to communicate how you both feel without victimizing each other.
…but make sure that you disagree in a very healthy.
If you are afraid of telling each other how you both feel, then you are both not in a mature relationship.
If you pull tantrums after having a heart to heart talk, then you are not mature enough to handle the relationship.
If you yell at each other, screaming at each other on top of your lungs, just to heard, then you need to grow.
Arguments are healthy for any relationship to mature. They help chisel out all rough edges and to work out what needs to be worked out.
While at it, do not be afraid to speak out your mind. A family is not ran by the husband or the wife solely. R relationship should never be one sided.
So speak out on what ails both of you, but in a mature way, without steeping on each others toes or making each other feel irrelevant.