Do you get angry quickly at your spouse?


Check your heart.

A quick peek under the surface of anger is enough to see that much of the rage we feel when something happens to us grows out of self-centeredness.

When we become angry, we become more protective of our own and less concerned about the issues of the other person.

Anger is one of greatest obstacle to building a truly Goldy and good relationship.

Calling our anger justified is self-centered: a selfishness that deep in our souls, feels entirely reasonable and therefore acceptable in light of how we have been treated.

Calling our anger righteous is a high claim, for it perverts the very character of love.

Remember love is not easily angered. Now, that doesn’t exclude the feeling of anger, but it doesn’t justify itself too.


What is your take?