Find common grounds that you both can play.
Find the things you can do together.
Do them. …
Find what makes both of you merry, together.
Is it singing, dancing, bowling, horse riding, travelling, hiking, swimming, going to the gym, doing business, cooking, painting, writing, reading…… Whatever common grounds you have, exploit them.
Take advantage of those playgrounds.
They are your home turfs.
Both of you will always win!