What you focus on magnifies.
Focus on negativity, you will birth cynicism.
Focus on anger, you will birth bitterness.
Focus on defeatism, you will birth hopelessness. …
Focus on failure, you will birth despondency.
Focus on the positive, you will birth hope.
Focus on hope, you will birth confidence and grace.
Focus on confidence you will birth effectiveness.
Focus on the negative side of your spouse, little endearments that once tickled you will fade into oblivion.
Focus on the positive side of your spouse, little quirks that irk you will not be points of contention!
What you focus on will magnify!
Choose to FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE SIDE OF THINGS!
Circumstances may not have changed, but your perspective will.